HARVEY, Stuart Andrew. Passed away peacefully at Hospice Waikato on Saturday, 22nd March 2025. Aged 47 Years. Devoted and loving husband to Jacqueline. Great father to his four legged children, Coco & Diesel.
A private farewell has taken place. A memorial service will be held at a later date. Messages to the Harvey Family can be sent c/- 3 Hallys Lane, Cambridge 3434 or in Stu’s online tribute book at www.grinters.co.nz
26 Messages:
Dearest Stu,
It’s hard to believe that you are no longer with us. You were always so attentive to those who were around you and had a genuine interest in your friends and their lives. Always a gracious host with such a kind and positive spirit, and you were always up for a good time.
Stu was passionate about his beliefs and had such deep/intense eye contact, so you always knew he was giving you his full attention!
Though time will heal, there will always be a hole where Stu used to be. Hold your loved ones a little longer tonight. Life is a gift that is not promised. I will always look back fondly of my memories with Stu. May you finally be at peace.
I’ve put off writing this for a while now, as it still doesn’t feel quite real, and I couldn’t think of the “right” words to say. As the years seem to pass so quickly, it’s amazing to realize that we were friends for nearly a decade. During that time, we shared so many wonderful memories—from crazy Halloween parties to joyful Christmas celebrations, to our semi-regular Mount hikes where we talked until we couldn’t breathe (or talk) anymore.
Sadly, throughout some of those years, Stu faced many ups and downs with his health. But through it all, he always had a smile on his face and faced each challenge with a strength and grace that all of us could only hope to emulate.
It’s heartbreaking to lose a friend, but I take comfort in knowing he is no longer in pain, and I feel truly privileged to have known him. Stu will be deeply missed and never forgotten.
My love goes out to Jackie and all the family.
Having met Stu on the school bus in secondary school I’ve known him for a fair chunk of my life. We got on immediately and became firm friends. We could often be found discussing last nights football, tv shows or films on the bus to school in the morning. I always enjoyed Stuart’s sense of humour, mischievousness and fun. He was always prepared to offer his viewpoint on pretty much any topic which led to some lively discussions.
We were often at each other’s houses and I fondly remember receiving a warm welcome from Stuart’s family, John, Lynn and brother Phil. Stuart was always up for an adventure and as we got older we went to gigs, clubs and festivals. It’s looking back on these memories and the experiences we shared growing up that I feel such a profound sense of loss at the shocking news of Stuart’s passing. I’d like to send my deepest condolences to Jackie and family at this very difficult time.
I’ll never forget you Stu mate. Rest in peace.
Stu, I am so incredibly sad that you had to leave us so soon. I have so happy and funny memories from our childhood. I really wish we had had more time together in our adulthood, but I am thankful that we did eventually get together again and stay in touch. I will treasure the memories of our reunion dinner with you, Jackie and Ian. What a great night we had. I think we could have talked all night had the restaurant not closed and thrown us out! Your passing is a tragedy and you will be truly missed. My heart breaks for Jackie, John, Lynne and Phil. Rest in peace Stu. All my love, Nicola xxx
Thankyou for educating me that women “were more than bloody objects” as I navigated my way through university and that not everything “needed to be practical, functional” or beer to be worthwhile
I was lucky enough to know Stu during uni studying civil engineering, and I’m sure he was one of the first people i as chatting to on enrolment day.
He was a very warm and friendly character, never afraid to speak up and a great laugh!
It was always nice talking about books and films during our frequent trips to the basement cafe during lectures.
Rest in peace Stuart and deepest condolences to your family.
I didn’t know Stu for long but meeting him he was always a kind and friendly guy. He knew how to enjoy a party. Intelligent and thoughtful. Sending all my love to those he leaves behind.
So very, very sad you were taken away at such a young age. Rest in peace Stuart .Sending our love to Jackie, John, lynne and Phil. love Alison & Chris xx
I have not met anyone with Stu’s sheer passion and enthusiasm. To strike up a conversation with him about anything at all – from scaling Mount Maunganui, to the UFC – he was a fountain of positivity that could not be stopped.
Stu, we may not have spent much time together, but it has been great knowing you. It astonishes me just how much joy and zeal you could bring, while facing so many trials. You were a good and strong man, and rightfully loved.
My thoughts are with all the family. A strange moment, such sad news and one that knocked me for six. The past week I have shared so many good memories and laughed about old times, with old friends from our Uni days. I will remember Stu exactly like he was in those days. Sharp, clever, witty and never held back from being honest and speaking his mind. I admired him for that. You will be missed, my friend. Rest in Peace.
It is a little over a week since I learned of Stu’s passing and I still haven’t come to terms with the loss or the situation which preceded it. I never will.
As I look back and reflect on my memories of Stu I can’t help but smile; even though I know he has now left us.
I first met Stu on an open day trip to look around at Liverpool John Moore’s University back in 1997. We never spoke on the day but would end up living together for a few years afterwards through the fortune of fate. Looking back we all arrived at Uni fresh faced, enthusiastic and green around the gills. Stu was on another level. His naturally good heart, curiosity and trusting nature often made Stu the subject of a wind up but he always laughed along and relished the joy that was created once he realised that he had been set up.
After Uni when we all dispersed to various places to start the next chapters of our lives we have still tried to keep in contact and meet up when possible. Stu would often berate us if we let this slip and on the occasions he could join us there was always a different energy and vibrancy to the occasion.
The stories of our time at Uni would be retold many times and form a bond and anchor between all involved as we continue to move through life dealing with the new challenges which come our way.
Stu was front and centre in many of these stories and although they act as an indicator of his youthful ignorance they also serve as points of reflection on how we have all grown and matured over the years since.
On reflection I think that Stu has probably travelled the furthest on this journey; helped in no small part to his amazing wife Jacqui.
I think of Stu’s life in 2 parts; pre and post Jacqui. I have wonderful memories of Stu from his younger days but I’m also very grateful to have an equal share of memories from after he found his soul mate. I’m not sure how she managed it but over the years since I have witnessed the youthful brashness dissolve away and be replaced with a more reflective and compassionate version of Stu; still driven by the same enthusiasm but with his big heart front and centre.
Stu 2.0.
Stu will never be forgotten by his friends, family or anyone who ever met him. I will miss my friend deeply and regret not having been able to support him in the end. I wish there could have been one last meet up but the memories we do have will be cherished and retold many times.
Thank you Stu and Rest in Peace x
Stu,
I’ll miss our catchups and your infectious enthusiasm watching sports.
So many great memories from our time in London and here in NZ.
Most of all, thank you for being such a wonderful, loyal, and devoted husband to Jackie.
Jackie & family,
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Stu, you were so brave, I’m sorry you had to leave us so soon. Thank you for the fun, friendship and good times…I’ll remember our adventures in London, Cambridge, Ibiza and beyond. You were always the host with the most, making the best wake up morning coffees. You made Jackie so happy and please rest in peace knowing we will do our best to look after her now you are gone ❤️
Stuart you were so smart and handsome and were destined to do well. We spent lovely times together as children unfortunately not enough time together as adults. I’m sure you had an amazing life with Jackie in NZ . You will be missed so much and it’s so sad your life was cut short.
All our love Emma, James Chelsea, Issac and Phoebe xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Till we all meet again
My old friend, Saddened to hear you left this world, I find solace that you’re in no more pain. Out of the Waveley crew, you were certainly one of a kind, The odd plant in your room, waltzing across the living room and turning the tv off, because you’d had enough 😂. Your in-depth discussion of Kill Bill…and when the sequel came out, wow!. I only have great memories of you Stu. Fly high brother. My condolences to all the family and your wonderful wife x
We first met over 20 years ago at Nottingham Trent university when we enrolled on the same course together. We had many good times as course mates and in our final year, we were flat mates. Being the young one of the class, we would often joke about how old you was as you would never tell us your age! You had us all guessing the whole time. The endless joke, I would always remember. We would spend many hours as a group building spaghetti structures or walking down into the Nottingham Caves with Tony Waltham. You would speak to me in great detail about film styles and explain to me about what Quentin Tarantino would be trying to achieve in each of his famous scenes. Your passion and knowledge of films was second to none. In our final year, you would play U2 – The Joshua Tree at full volume and tell me what an awesome album it was but I could never get to like them. Rest in peace Stuart. My thoughts to all your family.
I consider myself lucky to have met Stu when he and Jaqueline came to visit me, Angie and Billy in Teddington a few years ago. He was very warm and kind and I was very sad to hear of his passing.
Lots of love from James
Our darling , beloved Stuart . What a joy you have been to us throughout your life . Always lighting up our lives with your humanity , sheer joy for life and your positive attitude . You were a good and decent man and we felt privileged that you were our son . We love you so very much and miss you . Our lives and the world will be a poorer place without you may you rest in peace .
Our absolute deepest sympathy Jackie .
Stu, may your spirit fly high and in well deserved peace. You are a great mate and I miss the banter over a beer and kebabs already. Just heartbroken.
To Jacky; may the happy memories arise to the top of your spirit. May they bring happiness and compfort during hard times.
I wish your spirit peace amongst the chaos of sorrow.
To Stu’s family.
Please be proud of the gentleman that stu became. He was a great guy.
Fly high my freind.
Arohanui e hoa.
All my love to you Stu, Jackie and your families.
We will be missing you from here but relieved that you are no longer in pain.
It was such a pleasure to meet you and I will always remember your kindness and your big smile.
Very sad with the news and here to be by your side Jackie, whenever you need a friend.
Much love ♥️
Luana
Dear Stu – we have the most wonderful memories of you as a huge part of our family. You and Jacqueline make the perfect couple – so happy together and so much in love. You both fought a very brave battle.
You are a fantastic uncle to your nieces and nephews (Jackson, Madeline, Jasper, Marlo, Mack and Keelie). You are an absolutely brilliant brother-in-law to Rob and Amber, Michele, and John and Jacqui – and unbelievably treasured Dad to Diesel, Suki and Coco.
Our outings to TECT Park with the dogs hold amazing memories. Diesel and Suki had the freedom to run ahead, run through the bush, and dive in and out of the ponds. Once they were back at home and bathed, they would be chilled out for the rest of the day.
Whenever you put the kettle on, you always ask me if I would like a cup of tea. I always appreciate that – even though tea is not my favourite drink.
We had several interesting discussions over the years, most notably about gardening methods that encompass not weeding, and dog registration. Our opinions may differ, but I am so proud that you are my son-in-law.
“Catch you later Stu”
Incredibly sad that you have left us Stu, and to hear the journey you have been on these past years is difficult to imagine.
However I understand that you wanted your friends to have happy memories of you, not sad. And that I do! When I think of you Stu I think of belly laughs at Waverley, sweaty gigs at Rock City, your passion for films and all the great movies I’ve watched because of you (Quentin Tarantino!), sharing a love of music, trying new places, deep conversations (and arguments haha). You made me laugh and you were there for me when times were tough. I’m so sad you’re gone.
Sending all our love to Jackie, the doggies and all of your extended family and friends who will miss you so much.
Take care my friend, I will miss you!! Xxx
Thoughts and prayers are with you Jackie. Deepest sympathies. Pablo
May you be in peace now Stu.
Jackie you have been in my thought’s and prayers throughout this whole fight, and he did fight so hard for life and the love he shared with you with great honor. My deepest condolences to you.xx
To Michele, Jackson and Madeline, you are in my heart and thought’s, be strong kids and remember the beautiful times you shared with your uncle. To Stus’s parents and family although we never meet I am sorry for your loss and I pray for peace for you all.
While it is utterly devastating that you had to go, there is comfort knowing you are at peace now Stu.
You will leave a huge space in our lives and hearts, which must now be filled with only memories and stories that we share with each other.
You are a fantastic brother, funny uncle and an amazing husband to Jackie. Thank you for choosing her and our family.
We will miss you forever.
Farewell, my husband, my best friend, and the love of my life. For 20 years, you gave me love, strength, and a sense of worth I never knew I needed. I don’t know how to do life without you, but I will carry you with me always.
You fought with incredible strength and grace, facing everything head-on. We miss you so much, darling. You were the best thing that ever happened to me.
I know you’re now an angel and will be with Suki, and having a vodka with Nana.
Love always, Jackie, Diesel and Coco.
XXX